Relationship between signifigant others and the Siblings

[LilacMajesty]

Do you all think that its important for the Sibling's significant others to have good relationships with the other siblings.  I think it is, like Bade's relationship with Selorin.  And the way Hitari gets along with Anosanim.

[Susanne]

Yes, I think it is or you would think it would just cause stress and frustration between family members. I experienced this in real life with my brothers 2nd wife we tried ( the whole family ) to make her feel at home and part of the family but she looked down on us like we were beneath her and it tore my brother in two finally he got smart and got rid of her. 

Now he has been married to wife 3 (1st wife passed away) for about 3 years and the whole family LOVES her she is wonderful and she adores us to and we all love getting together and spending time together. 

[anaskee]

Well....I haven't talked to my sister for more than 3 years partly because of her husband.

Back to the siblings.  It is essential that the spouses and  boyfriends get along with all the siblings, most especially for significant others of the twins.  Besides, there's seriously something wrong with  anyone who doesn't like any of the siblings.

[anaskee]

Here's what Anosanim has to say about this:

....but if you said that you loved me, and then weren’t adoring and generous to my brothers, I don’t think that I’d believe you.  If you love me, you have to care about them, because loving me means understanding how much they mean to me.”

- Chapter 138